Thursday, April 29, 2010
Tuesday Nights
My Vision Quest: Food!
My vision quest was a little different than the rest of everyone's vision quests.
Now I can tell you that this has nothing to do with my vision quest but figured I'd mention one of the reasons why I decided to even study abroad on the Abbaye program. I can tell you that my experience here in Europe has been eye opening. In my family, the majority of my older cousins (I'm talking cousins removed as well) have studied abroad to all the different parts of the world. They have visited Ireland and Italy; France and Spain; Argentina along with China! In my immediate family I have seven other cousins and then my younger sister, Angelica so nine in total including me. Five of the nine grandchildren are younger than me. I was the first granddaughter born for my grandma and grandpa. So I have a group of younger generations below me looking up to me and expecting e to be their role model. So that's is one of my main reasons to study abroad. I wanted to follow in my older cousin's footsteps and at the same time hope to be setting an good example for my baby cousins and my sister.
Now to go on with my vision quest. Coming from a New York Italian family, I found it fitting to only do my Vision Quest on none other than food that I encountered in Europe!! The three countries I wanted to focus on was Italy, Spain, and of course, France.
In Italy I was able to experience some amazing Gelato and lasagna in Rome. Side note; it was hard to find chicken Parmesan so if you are in the mood for that don't go looking for it. You'll be on a wild goose chase. I loved Venice when it came to the people and the atmosphere but absolutely adored the food in Rome. One of my favorite moments in Rome involved me sitting at a Cafe with an espresso right in front of the Colosseum. I guess I'll admit having hot tea after having Easter Sunday mass at the Vatican was pretty epic too. I loved Italian food and I can't wait to go back later and try different foods from there in different regions that what I visited.
My next destination: Spain. The Spanish do have a different kind of food. But just as delicious. I was able to visit my best friend Laura who has grown up in the Basque country of Spain in the city called Bilbao. When I first arrived at Laura's home, her mom came up to me and embraced me. Her father put my suit case in Laura's room. Then as I walked into Laura's room, her mom followed us shortly after with a tray of coffee and flan. I knew I was set in the food department staying with this lovely host family. Every night, Laura's mother would make us amazing dishes. She would make fish dishes, dishes with red peppers. I was able to experience real authentic food; characteristic of Basque country Spain.
My main Destination is centered in France. In France I noticed that the French center their lives around carbs and the idea of a three course meal. I was lucky enough to be able to cook over 50 crepes for the Abbaye student body with my host dad. Talk about an experience for me. The deserts are exceptional and hard to pass up when you walk into a Patisserie. Food is such a delicacy here in France and definitely something that people should experience in their lifetime.
All these experiences in France and in Spain and Italy have made me come to realize that I have the power to take control of my life and see all the different parts of the world and it has allowed me to accept all different kinds of cultures and then allow myself to innovate these different attributes in these cultures into my life. I will bring these experiences back with me to my family and my cousins that I know look up to me.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
My Vision Quest
“Passionate. Emphatic. Uses his hands a lot.” These were all things that I wrote during his presentation. While I was trying desperately to focus on the assignment at hand, I couldn’t help but to feel compelled to have the experience that Dr. Mackaman was describing to the class. Eventually, I stopped taking notes and started listening. Really listening. Not so much to Dr. Mackaman’s description of Paris Week or Normandy, but listening to what I really wanted and what having that would mean. “Jordan, you can’t leave for a semester. A. You don’t have eight thousand dollars. B. You have responsibilities here in the States. And C. You will have to be in school two extra semesters to make up for what you’d miss.” I kept trying to talk myself out of the ridiculous idea that studying abroad for a whole semester was financially and academically justifiable. Then there came the emotional aspect of things: “How are you going to be away from your family for 3 months?? Are things going to be the same with everyone when you get back?? What if Maw Maw dies? You’d never forgive yourself for not being here.” All of these things, as trivial as they may seem, were troubling me for several days after Professor Mackaman’s presentation. I thought and prayed about it and made the decision to just do it. I paid the deposit on the program without even hinting anything to my parents, and then started applying for scholarships and working with financial aid. Everything started falling together. Except for one little detail; I hadn’t exactly told my parents. About a month after I paid the deposit, I invited them up to Hattiesburg and took them out to dinner. As smoothly as I possibly could, I said, “Mom, Dad, there’s something I need to tell you.” The looks on my parents faces read, “I’m gonna kill whatever boy got her pregnant” and “Dear God, where’s the tattoo.” I told them that I’d be spending the Spring semester studying in France (knowing asking for permission would’ve led to a big, fat NO), and they didn’t take it well. At all. But I knew they’d eventually come around, or at least I hoped so.
The week leading up to February 12th is still a little fuzzy. I remember being alarmingly calm about the fact that I was about to move to a foreign country for three months. I packed (not well, might I add) and then at 3:30 AM on February 12th, left for the airport. That’s when it hit me. “I’m really doing this.” When I got past security, I lost it. I was really leaving everything that I knew and loved behind for some ridiculous escapade in France. What an idiot. At this point, Charlotte, full of compassion, called me “cry pants” and threw a travel-size pack of tissues at me. We spent six dreadful hours in the Houston Airport, where I gave considerable thought to jumping a plane back home. At this point, I was pushing my comfort zone. In the past, dreaming big things had been easy and comfortable. But reaching those dreams? Frightening.
When we were told we’d be meeting with Dr. Mackaman about our “Vision Quests,” I had absolutely no idea what mine would be (mostly because I didn’t understand the concept.) When we were talking, much of what I said was “I’d love to dot dot dot, but I’m not really comfortable doing that.” We both came to the conclusion that stepping outside of my comfort zone was clearly going to be a task for me over the next couple of months.
Where as many people may have completed their vision quests over spring break, mine was/ has been a much more gradual process. Once I became comfortable here, I fell in love with France and all of Europe really. I began to step out of my comfort zone little by little, and I loved feeling so empowered. Because I loved it so much, I just knew I’d come back. “I could make a living over here,” I told myself. I was convinced that my heart belonged in Europe. I even told my mother that I was moving to France and possibly going to grad school in Paris. She took that news just about as well as she took my coming on the Abbey. I love my family, but didn’t really miss home. I was made for Europe, I thought. I thought I was so grown up.
When we set off for Paris Week, I was really excited and anxious to see all kinds of different places and excited to prove that I could live on my own (without my Abbey family) for a period of time. When Spring Break started, I was ready. Annah, Nathan, and I headed to Barcelona. After several days in Barcelona, Annah and I met up with Jenny and Elizabeth in Rome. After Rome came Florence. Then Vicenza, Venice, and Verona. Then back to the Abbey.
My spring break was definitely one to remember. It was full of laughter, tears, and special moments shared between now inseparable friends.
But looking back on Spring Break, and my time at the abbey, more than the beautiful scenery, attractive men, incredible instructors, and fun nights with friends, I’ll remember how much I learned—about myself and about life. Without testing friendships, I never would’ve learned how strong they truly are. I’ve learned to always seize the moment. I’ve realized how much you can learn if you stop talking and start listening. I know now that I need to stop taking myself so seriously and start believing in myself more. I know that I’m capable of anything I put my mind to and the dreams that I’ve had for so long don’t have to remain dreams forever. They have the possibility to become reality—Just like The Abbey. I’ve also learned that no matter what the future holds, whether it be singing and dancing my way onto Broadway, having my own design show on HGTV, or living my life in a small town, I’ll be happy and able to flourish as long as I’m with the people I love.
I never would have thought before coming on this trip that I’d be able to accomplish the things that I have. Coming here has impacted my life so drastically, and I can sincerely say that I will never be the same. This ancient Abbey will always hold a special place in my heart, as will each and every one of you here. We’ve all experienced something very special and almost magical, something I can never ever forget.
--Jordan Randall
Free hugs 6 & 24 March 2010 Eiffel tower.
Vision Quest
Here it is,
Comming along on this trip was something I never thought would happen. I knew that somehow it would fall through along the way. Coming across the country to live for three months away from everything I know and recognize is tough for anyone but for me it seemed impossible. If it wasn't for my really wonderful friend Amanda I probably would never have made it. It seemed like she was packed and ready to go the minute we heard about the Abbey Program in our always riveting government class. I saw the excitement and courage in her and I knew than I wouldn't let this opportunity pass me by because I was scared. I instantly knew it was something I not only wanted to do but had too. Just like anything in life, it wasn't easy to tell my parents that next semester I would be going 5,000 miles away to go to school, to get all the never ending paperwork done, figure out what classes corresponded to my major and somehow have some money to spend. Next thing I knew it was February and I was on my way.
If there is anything I have learned to be so true on this trip it's that attitude more than anything determines your experiences. Since we landed in Charles de Gaulle airport nothing has been easy. I remember walking out of the airplane excited and tired all at once and trying to remember some of the passengers faces so we could find baggage claim. We grabbed a luggage cart and waited till the very last suitcase made its rounds on the conveyer belt twice only to solidify what was going through our minds our luggage was lost. It was this event that leads me to my first experience speaking some sort of French. We walked into a room to speak to a lady about our lost luggage and for some reason I forgot that she didn't really speak English. I tried to mumble and describe what our luggage looked like and then she asked where we were going, a few more mumbles and confused faces later we agreed on something, at that moment I knew I was really in for something.
After what seemed like the longest bus ride of my life we finally arrived at the Abbey, put our luggage in our room and made our way to Le Commerce. I remember Jessica Lamb saying that this was the place we would be eating at everyday and most likely hanging out all the time which has never sounded so true. The one thing that sticks out in my mind the most is how LONG the walk felt to Le Commerce, I remember thinking "my God this is the longest walk ever, we are doing this everyday?"
I can truly say I have some really wonderful memories from the Abbey, there hasn't been one time during my stay that has made me regret the decision to come or to wish I had never to begin with. I have not only learned in an environment that allows me to live and practice what I am learning but to also see it. It's difficult to put into words how I feel about this place and the people I have met. Not only have I encountered some of the most beautiful, strong and kind-hearted people but I also got to personally share my experience with a really great friend and person. I hope that one day I can have as stong and as big of a heart as she does. Learning to grow and experience in a new environment with these people has been a priveledge I will cherish and remember for the rest of my life. I have gained a new appreciation for life and everything I have and I don't know if that is really sad that the Abbey helped me really know how blessed I am but it has. I have seen more things in my life than most people I know. I promised myself that in the beginning of this trip I would do everything I could to enjoy every moment I had here because to some people it will always be a dream but for me it was an incredible experience I got to live through.
When we had our meeting with Doug about our "Vision Quest" would be I wasn't really sure what that meant or what mine would be. I have always been the type of person to go with the flow and to never really complain about things that seem silly. Amanda and I always said to eachother before we got here was that we don't care where we go or who with, were in Europe and that is enough for us. Doug helped me realize my Vision may be to really be courageous, a little selfish and to speak up more even if it really isn't a big deal situation. I can say that I have learned what it means to be "courageous" in terms of traveling and to just let whatever happens happen. I have learned when it is important to speak up and know when it is okay to let it go. It sounds simple and maybe even silly but it is a lesson I have learned. I think my "Vision Quest" was appreciation; not to be confused that I didn't have any kind of appreciation to begin with but it is something different and wild to have to book a flight, bus or train, to find and decide on a place to stay, to agree with your fellow travelers on details, to catch a metro, to walk and walk and walk and then finally get to where ever your going stop and ask yourself why you wanted to go there to begin with and figure out what it means to you is exhausting and really difficult it pushes you to appreciate what your life, the places and people at home really mean to you. Really appreciating the places and landmarks I have seen in respect to the people who were here before me. Not only do I have a new appreciation for the many things in this world I have found a new appreciation for the most common things in my life. I am an incredibly blessed person and I realize how much my parents have sacrificed and given me.
I will never forget my time at the Abbey and how it has made me grow as a student and in a small but large way it has made me grow immensely as a person.
Surrounding Places
Blois is just a bus ride away 2euro there and back. It offers great shopping and great sandwiches! Blois is a really great day trip place to go. We leave about 8 or 12 in the morning and take the bus back around 5 but of course the bus schedule changes so make sure you check the schedule online before you head out.
Tours is another town nearby you can get there by train it has endless stores for shopping. Just about a whole street is dedicated to department stores. Tours is a good place to go if your in serious need of a new wardrobe or you just want to have a bigger place to explore with your friends. Tour was my first weekend trip and I had a great time but if you do decide to stay the weekend make sure you can check in to your hotel as soon as you get there. Not like my experience with my friends where we had to lugg our backpacks for four hours before we could check in and then had to checkout 6 hours before our train left. Is just about the least fun thing you can do.
This picture is of a few friends on a night out in Tours.
Ghost Walk
Vision Quest
Before coming to L’Abbaye, I didn’t know much about what I wanted. I knew I wanted to go to Greece (every girl does after watching The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants) and I knew I wanted to find out more about myself. I guess I didn’t have much time to think about it since coming here was a last minute, on a whim decision that is very out of character for me. On our first meeting about our Vision Quests, I made a list of things I wanted to accomplish while I’m here:
--I didn’t want to be defined by labels anymore. Not all of them have been bad: cheerleader, in showchoir, a Schraeder, a part of my sorority. A lot of these things I loved or still love, but I wanted to make a new and unique definition of myself.
--I wanted to catch the fever of travel so that I not only get to see new worlds and places, but also get to experience new cultures and expand my view of the world.
--I wanted to gain confidence in myself so that I can stick to my guns and speak up for myself. I’m was tired of letting people walk over me.
--I wanted to let people know what I’m thinking.
--I wanted to win and feel proud of myself.
--I wanted to lose and get over it.
--I wanted to be 100% positive that I don’t need anyone to tell me that I can make it- I can do it on my own if I need to.
--I wanted to be ok with what I believe in.
Reflecting back on my experience here, I’ve learned not only the things I planned to learn, but unexpected lessons as well:
--I’ve learned to appreciate the people in my life. Coming back from the two week travel break, I don’t think I’ve ever been more happy to see my Abbey friends. I’ve learned to appreciate each of them for who they are and who’ve they have helped me to become. Jay and Amanda with their always positive attitudes and smiles, Kadi who is always eager to help, Mandy, Eli, Nathan and Cody who have helped me keep my sanity and have been the best friends I could have asked for, our professors with their knowledge and creativity, the Lewis twins with their loving sisterly arguing...and the list goes on.
--I’ve learned that it’s important to figure out what you believe. I’ve never been one for getting into politics and I still hate arguing about it, but being in a place that is so different from home has helped me to see that I at least want to care about it now.
--I’ve learned that I want to know and appreciate the history of my family and my country, but I’ve also gotten a new appreciation for what’s to come in the future.
--I’ve learned that I want to go into the Peace Corps and help people who aren’t as fortunate as I have been and continue to grow as a citizen of the world.
--I’ve learned that it’s ok to not be right all the time.
--I’ve learned that I like green peas.
--I’ve learned to live in the moment.
--I’ve learned to open up to new people and new experiences.
The list could go on and on about things I’ve learned from getting stuck at Beauvais Airport to meeting new friends on spring break to jumping off of a cliff in Santorini. Overall, I think the most important lesson that I’ve learned here is to live in the moment, and however cheesy it may sound, to not be scared to be who you are.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
You've gotta fight...
Once shares of the Best Of The Abbey Experience Is The closed Relationships you build with comme au students. One Particular Way Students we get to Know One Another IS-through fun themed party nights at Le Commerce, the local bar / restaurant WHERE we eat lunch Every Tuesday night.
Tonight's theme is "7 Deadly Sins", goal while my wonderful friends are running around dressing up and and making Themselves look as sinful as possible, I am sitting here in my pajamas. The Reason: I have homework. Lots of homework. Mostly, this is my fault, I Did not let projects sit and think ahead. So, the moral of the story is ...
Do your homework "during the day. Then, go to the bakery to soak up the extra You May Have Consumed sin the night before.
... Or you could wake up in the morning and do your homework.
An Irish Weekend
Elizabeth's cup with our
long lost love: ICE!
One of the first most exciting things about Ireland (other than all of the English in the air!) was the ICE in Elizabeth's water! I totally forgot about the existence of ice before I saw her glass... that's how obsolete it is here. It also was refreshing to hear English, especially in a cool accent!
Our first day was spent in Dublin which is more touristy than the other places, but is still very laid back. It's definitely not like Paris where I always felt like it was go. go. go. Dublin was a very refreshing place to be as far as capitals are concerned. There are tons of places to see like Trinity College, St. Patrick's Cathedral, and the Dublin Castle. I definitely going to Ireland when the flowers start to bloom because the parks are beautiful. We spent about an hour sitting in the grass of St Stephen's Green talking, people watching, and enjoying the scenery.
The next day we went to Limerick and Shannon. We didn't spend a lot of time in Shannon, but walked around in the rain in Limerick. Limerick was beautiful, even with the rain. We walked around the town and
through a park there. This picture is from Limerick.
When we got to Shannon around 4 we stayed in our hotel. We were so exhausted from traveling all day. We watched The Best music video channel ever and had fun anticipating what random song would come on next. The next morning we left the Shannon Airport at 6:40 and got back into Paris around 12 ( flight + time change + bus ride from Beauvais airport to Paris). We had a picnic lunch in the park by the Eiffel Tower and then caught the train home.
This is what a typical weekend is like when travelling... lots of new things, lots of sites to see, lots of travelling, and not enough sleep! The longest we slept was 6 hours, but that doesn't ever matter. We always catch up on planes and trains!
DISCLAIMER: If you ever go to Ireland take your rain gear because Ireland is known for its rain. Luckily for us though, the sun was out while we were site seeing in Dublin.
The people in Ireland are very nice and helpful. I recommend going to everyone.
St. Patrick's Cathedral
www.stpatrickscathedral.ie
The London Eye
I wanna go hooo-oh-oh-oh-ooooome!...spongebob
As much as i want to go home though, i don't want to say goodbye to all of the new friends that i made THAT DON'T GO TO USM!!! I'm not the one to cry easily but daaaang! I'm gonna need to drop some tears come 2 weeks from now. I have sooo many awesome memories of my time here and i'm so glad that i can always turn to those memories and share them with my family. I swear i gained like 50 new best friends that will always have a place in my heart.
There's Cody (serve master) & Ryan
He's Caseeeeeey!
Audi!
Yams!
Jaff!
Sir Gabe
Jess!
Ladies Man
Lu!
Jenny!
Kimbo!
Boat Ride
Santorini :)
Consumerism and the Department Store
The Industrial Revolution:
Spanning from 1760 to 1850, the Industrial revolution spread across Europe as well as the United States. It brought around enormous change in a wide variety of fields. Production of goods was greatly improved; agriculture saw the invention of new tools and methods for better and faster crop production, textile manufacturing was heavily streamlined and sped up, and metal manufacturing was revolutionized as iron was used more extensively for construction. Economic and political policies were changed to fit the rapidly expanding workforce and the problems that arose from this expansion. Social structure shifted as cities and families were centered around factories, more children were recruited to work at younger and younger ages, and as cities became densely populated and therefore more unsanitary. Outbreaks of typhoid and cholera were prevalent. However, despite negative changes, the industrial revolution also improved clothing and housing, created a cornucopia of jobs, and introduced a number of important health and labor acts.
There was so much that happened during the Victorian era throughout Europe as well as the rest of the world. The Industrial Revolutions were at their peak; medicine was starting to advance in wondrous ways with Marie Curie physicist and chemist, Ernest Haeckel and Gregor Mendel famous biologists, along with Dmitri Mendeleev the chemist who created the periodic table. The arts were advancing through new and impressive artists such as Van Gogh, Monet, Beethoven, Charles Dickens, Edgar Alan Poe, Mark Twain along with many more that brought the realism and new revolutionary ways of thinking into the homes of ordinary second class people of the world. Alexander Graham Bell and Thomas Edison were turn of the century inventors and all these evolutionary moments in history were all occurring in this one era. All these new and inventive ways of thinking also flowed into the producing and consuming economies.
Amalgamated Textiles Manufacturers Institute
1101 Connecticut Avenue, N.W.
Suite 300
Here is a website to check out that we found useful: http://www.yale.edu/ynhti/curriculum/units/1981/2/81.02.06.x.html (just in case it doesn't work)
Monday, April 26, 2010
Spring Break
So, probably the best part of spring break, and being in Europe, was getting to see my best friend Emese for the first time in 5 years. We went to grad school together forever, and after graduation, she moved back to Europe to go to dental school. Since I was here, I decided to go to Hungary and visit her! Best decision. This is a picture of the two of us in high school!
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Versailles
(That's Me!!)